‘I paid once, I warned him, and I’m done being his permanent bailout’: Wife refuses to buy her chronically late husband another international ticket after he shows up 16 minutes before a nonrefundable flight, misses it, and demands a bailout

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  • AITA for refusing to rescue my 38yo husband after he showed up 16 minutes before his international flight home and missed it?

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  • So my husband (38M) just missed his flight home. For context, I (39F) am the one who booked it using
  • our household money, checked him in, and warned him multiple times not to cut it close. This was a Basic Economy ticket
  • (aka non- refundable, non- changeable). He knew that, because when he tried to get me to move it from Sept 3 to Sept 8,
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  • I told him nope, not paying extra. And what happened? Exactly what I said would. He stayed at his mom's house until
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  • the last possible second, left too late, and rolled up to the airport at 6:44AM for a 7:00AM flight home. Bag cutoff had been
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  • closed for almost 40 minutes. He blew up my phone with like 7 calls, and when I finally answered he hit me with, "Babe,
  • I need you to get me another ticket." said, "You need WHO? Not me." I reminded him I warned him, and I wasn't
  • bailing him out. He tried, "I've never missed a flight before," and I hung up. This isn't even new. Since this whole "family reunion" plan
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  • started, the universe has been screaming don't go and he ignored it: • He couldn't rent a car because of his driving record. • When I tried
  • to add him to my insurance, we discovered his license is revoked. Adding him would've taken my premium from under $200/month to about $800/month.
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  • • Hard pass. He accused me of not being a "supportive/united" wife because I wouldn't rent him a car in my name. Then tried to
  • get someone else to do it. Also failed. And this isn't the first time his "we have plenty of time" attitude screwed us. When our oldest and I traveled
  • recently, we couldn't check bags because he dragged his feet, and we had to sprint through the airport with carry-ons to make the gate. Meanwhile, real life:
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  • • We've got 4 kids. • We've got 2 houses (one overseas, one in the States). •The overseas one we just bought is a fixer-upper, and every spare
  • dollar is going into making it livable. • The house we were in has already sold, but the new one isn't ready yet because of delays. • Translation:
  • funds are tight. So now he's stranded at his mom's. Our house in the States is booked solid on Airbnb until November. The kids and I won't even
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  • be back until November 27. So he can stay right there with the family he always runs to and defends. He and his family will probably spin it
  • like I'm cold and unsupportive. But from where I'm standing: I paid once, I warned him, and I'm done being his permanent bailout. The money
  • wasted on his missed flight? That's just tuition for the lesson he enrolled himself in. TL;DR: Husband showed up at 6:44AM for a 7:00AM international flight home,
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  • missed it, and now wants me to pay again. I said nope, enjoy your mom's couch until November.

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